A lot of the work I do as a therapist is asking people to connect with their emotions. Like taking a small child’s hand if you are in a busy, scary or unknown place, putting that wee child’s hand in yours gives them a sense of security and safety.
Layers of an onion
Like layers of an onion we all have different layers to us. My definition of myself was someone who was active, loved Crossfit workouts, walking and running my dogs, fit-ish, strong and always on the go with lots of energy for whatever life threw at me.I love travel and exploring new places. Since I fell and broke my leg 3 months ago none of those definitions of me apply to me anymore (temporarily!) so where does that leave me and my sense of me- my ego.
Learnings from a broken leg
At the start of November I fell and broke my leg in 3 places.
It’s been a real learning journey for me. I have learned patience – which is not easy for me!
I’ve learned humility, what it feels like to be disabled in an able bodied world, albeit temporarily.
I’ve learned what it’s like to be completely dependent on others for everything and what it feels like to be housebound, to have to ask others for absolutely every single little thing.
I’ve learned to appreciate the small things- like going into a shop and choosing what you want to eat and coming home and cooking it- that is a luxury that was unafforded to me for so long and is a luxury many can only dream of.



